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This story was written by Carole Arnett for an English class at Sinclair College –April 17, 1989.

 

 

Mischievous Little Boy

 

On September 3rd many years ago, a beautiful baby boy was born into our family; we named him Jack. Jack was a sweet, kind  little boy  and we always loved him very much. Jack did have a jovial personality that got him into many interesting situations. He enjoyed playing tricks on people and watching their reaction.  If Dennis the Menace would have had a role model, it would have been my son,  Jack.

    

One of Jack’ s mischievous little events happened when our cousin, Floyd, came to visit. Floyd and my husband were talking and not paying any attention to Jack, Three-years-old. Floyd related an incident and commented, “I got a kick out of that.”  Jack walked up to Floyd, kicked him in the shin and asked, “Did you get a kick out of that?” Floyd reacted with a shocked look on his face! He laughed while rubbing his leg; to this day Floyd tells the story of Jack to everyone who mentions his name.

 

Jack even played his tricks on his brother and sisters. One of his tricks involved his sister Brenda, who was about 18 months younger than Jack. When Brenda was about four years old, Jack would tease her by telling her she was adopted. He really had her convinced that she was adopted. Several weeks ago (in 1989) Brenda came to me and said, “Mom was I really adopted?” I said, “Of course not Brenda. You and Jack look enough alike to be twins and we already had three children, why would we adopt you?” Brenda said that she could see that now, but at that time she believed her brother.            

 

I must tell you about the time just before Jack entered the first grade. One day, the stove repair man came to the house. Jack went to his dad and said, “Dad, that guy is Mom’s boyfriend; he comes here all the time.” Jack went on to say that the man came dressed different ways, sometimes like the mailman and sometimes like the meter reader. My husband said, “Should I take the ball bat and go hit him?” Jack said, “Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, go ahead.” He was so excited, just waiting to see what would happen. Fortunately, Jack’s dad understood that Jack was playing another joke. Jack and his dad waited and watched as the repairman went about his business.  Soon the man left the house and this episode was over, but not easily forgotten.

 

Jack didn’t get in trouble very often at school, but he did one day in the fourth grade. The teacher was standing beside a big water puddle. Jack looked at the teacher; then he looked at the puddle. What is a nine-year-old boy to do, but jump into the puddle and splash water on the person standing by? I don’t think Jack could help himself, but the teacher certainly didn’t understand this. Jack told us the teacher would not let him go outside for a few recess periods; he also explained to us the reason for this detention.

 

One of Jack’s favorite jokes was to remove a piece of silverware from the table every time I turned around. It took a long time for me to set the table for dinner each evening, and I never did understand what happened to the missing silver. My guess is that he put the silverware back into the drawer, as I only found a few pieces that had been used for shovels in the sandbox. This hiding the silver game continued all the years that Jack was growing up.

 

The worst trick that Jack played wasn’t meant to be a trick. He had just grown up and left most of his mischievousness behind him when he moved to Albuquerque, New Mexico, and left a big void in my life.

 


Added by Jack’s dad, Charles Arnett, January 2002 – This was not read at the Memorial Service

 

I have two incidents that I think round out what Carole and Brenda told.  The first takes place in 1964.  We had a fire in our home and we moved into my Aunt’s house on Martindale Road in Union as they were in California visiting their children.   Aunt Iva had a player piano with rolls.  The rolls had words on them so you could pump and sing.  When I came home from work Jack would want me to sing for him.  He would get behind me and roll on the floor laughing.  As soon as I stopped he would stop and sit up straight.  When I turned around he would, very seriously, say, “that was good dad, sing some more, sing some more dad.”  We would repeat the process, he was a kindergartener at the time.

 

The second took place when he was in the first or second grade.  He came home with a story about how some boy pushed him out of line and the teacher yelled at him.  He tried to explain, but she would not listen instead took him to the principals office for being sassy.  The principal started to bawl him out and when he tried to explain the principal got exasperated and spanked him.  Carole told me the story when I got home so I went to see the principal.  Fortunately, he had already gone home.  Jack asked Carole where I had gone and she told him I went to  get the principal.  Jack then explained, “Oh no mom, I just made up that story.”