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Jack's Main Memorial Page
Preached at the Funeral
Of a Suicide
8/6/99
by
Charles J
Arnett
Also at the
Sovereign Grace Fellowship
under the
title
Does
Suicide Bar The Door To Heaven
1/25/00
REDEEMED BY THE BLOOD OF THE LAMB
I Pet. 1:18-21
Introduction: "Forasmuch
as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver
and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your
fathers; But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without
blemish and without spot: Who verily was foreordained before the
foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you,Who by him
do believe in God, that raised him up from the dead, and gave him glory; that
your faith and hope might be in God."
Angela, Lisa, Ralph, Tony, Pamela, Sherry & James,
Kathy & Denis, Elizabeth, Kindra,
Family and friends, I cannot add to your memories and I certainly do not want
to take away from your precious memories.
The circumstances of Nancy’s passing always gives rise to
questions that is hard to keep quite in our hearts. I pray that I can answer some of those questions this afternoon
and give you some comfort.
I have known Nancy for quit a number of years. What I say
this after noon I do not say as a stranger.
I have had over the years quit a few serious talks with Nancy. Bro. Ron Thomas was with me most of those
times. Our new pastor, Pastor Baldwin
has had a good visit with Nancy. I do
feel, as does Bro. Ron, some of what you are feeling.
First,
I want to give you a brief outline of a person from the Word of God.
SOME ANSWERS FROM JOB
Who was Job? His patience is a proverb. People use to say of
someone who endured much trials and suffering, "They have the patience of
Job." James says "Ye have heard of the patience of Job." In chapter 1 God said that Job was "… an upright man,
one who feared God.” God
indicated there was no one like Job – he was a Godly man. I
suspect none of us here measures up to Job. God
allowed Satan to test Job – Job went thru some very hard times.
In Job 6: 8, 9, Job
was prayed for death. Job
gives us the picture of utter despair, of extreme depression. In Job 7, Job
gives us the excuses for his despair. In verse 5 Job says his days are
spent without hope. As
he looked around, and remembered the former times, he lost it all. He
had no expectation of circumstances changed, he was discouraged.
But we need to understand that even if Job was in extreme
depression, he never lost hope in God. There
is a difference between losing hope in this life and hope in the life to come. Job
19:25 “For I know that my redeemer
liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the
earth:” We may not excuse Job, but we can understand him. I
repeat, there is a difference between hope in this life and hope in
the life to come. You may be sad now, but are you depressed? Do you have hope in this life? Do you have
hope in the life to come.
THE TAKING OF ONE'S LIFE IS
NOT THE UNPARDONABLE SIN
Most mistakes about taking one’s life is because a person does
not understand Salvation.
Taking one’s life is not the unpardonable sin.
Matt 12:32 “And whosoever speaketh a word against the
Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy
Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world
to come.”
We will not take time to explain this but clearly
Nancy did not commit the unpardonable sin.
Another misconception is that the sin of taking one own life
is unforgiveable because it is an unrepented sin.
I don’t think we can say that with certainty that the person sis not repent in
the last moment.
However,
unrepented sin does not cause a person to lose eternal life.
Unrepented
sin does not keep a person out of heaven.
Sin
unconfessed does not keep a person out of heaven.
If
that were so, none of us would have eternal life.
I
know I will probably die with unconfessed sin, I know that I overlook some of my
sins and completely ignore them.
We do not go to heaven by asking for forgiveness of each and
every sin.
Let us be clear about what is the basis of enjoying eternal
life.
THE BASIS OF ETERNAL
LIFE
Notice our Text in 1 Peter 1:18, 19.
A
person goes to heaven thru the blood of Jesus.
Entrance
into heaven, or salvation is not something we earn but something that is earned
by the blood of Jesus Christ, the Son of God.
Sin
does not keep us out of heaven. Listen to this list of verses.
John 1:12 “But as many as received him, to them gave
he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his
name:” Those
that believe on his name, are given the power to becomes the sons of God. Not
those whose life merits it, those whose good deeds balance out, but those who
receive Christ. Children
do not stay your children by always doing what you please. I
have been in funeral homes when the children were very sad because the last
words to their mom or dad were angry ones. They
did not cease to be their children.
John 3:16 “For God so
loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth
in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” How
do we get eternal life? By believing on
Jesus. How long is eternal
life?
Rom. 3:23-25 "For all have
sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Being justified freely by his grace
through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus: Whom God hath set forth
to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, ..."
No, we are not saying that a person can be saved and live like
the devil’s child and be happy and be cocky about it.
A
person who truly believes will be conscious of their failures before God and
have deep regret about it.
But a person who has mental or emotional problems, extreme
depression, does not lose
eternal life.
Job,
still had hope of eternal life and he was
in great despair. Yet Job,
was probably a lot stronger in his
faith than any of us. He had lost
hope in this life.
A VERY SERIOUS
QUESTION
Have you ever received Jesus Christ as your Lord and saviour?
Do you claimed Jesus Christ as your sin bearer?
How can the blood of Jesus redeem us? He
died in the place of sinners. He
took our guilt upon Himself, and took the punishment due us.
When we receive the Lord Jesus Christ by faith, our sin, all
of our sin, is under the blood of the Lamb. As
a child of God we may displease the Father, but we no longer have the legal
relationship where God the Judge of all the earth condemns us. But
as a child of God we are treated as a child of our heavenly Father.
CONCLUSION: Will you turn to Jesus now, receive Him by faith? Rest
in the redemption of His blood. You may leave this life a nice person, but
without Christ you are lost. Turn to Him now.